I do the conversion in LR, try to keep the tones kinda warm, and then add the tone in PS by using the colour balance sliders. (add a bit of blue and magenta). I used the spot meter too, but I still get blown highlights. They might not be sharp enough for some either.
I agree, the focus in the first is a bit confusing. And I’d agree about the last too. I had previously got something like what you both suggested from an earlier gig (below) but was just trying something different.